Personally, I always think that there is no reason for any other person to think about me as I do think about others. But some incidents do happen which prove that I am sometimes wrong..
The other day I forwarded a cute mail to a small list of friends which included Ms. N who was my batchmate in training for a couple of months. We really had a good time. But now we are not in touch with each other and I thought she must have forgotten me comfortably as I am not a lively guy (as she once said ‘you are really a boring person.. you with your friend piyush is fine but only you is really boring..)
Here comes a little surprise..!! I saw a reply mail from her saying:
“Hi bharath
Nice to see your mail after so many months.”
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.. I thought.. so people do remember me some times..!!!
Though we chatted for a couple of mins, I felt so good for the reason that she could recollect our training days very well given the kind of impression I left on her. So sweet of you!
Smaller things in life like these are really necessary to make a little change in your daily life.
“I am a loner in thoughts and not necessarily in company” – RGV
Note: piyush and kruthika were my batchmates throughout my training. I miss those days!
Unanswered questions…
--> Whenever I plan something, it usually flops (once again proved on 9th Oct 2010). Elaborate on this.
--> Why is that whenever I crave for some company (which I rarely do) I don’t get it? I end up calling 5 or 6 friends. They are either out of town or already engaged in some other work or in the worst case do not attend the call..!!.
--> I ordered for a cutlet and standing there for the past 15 minutes. A person suddenly comes out of nowhere, happily orders the same thing, and even gets it before I do(without any waiting time..!). it happened so many times that I lost count of those. Why?
--> I don’t really understand why always the person seated behind me in a cinema theatre hits my seat from behind with his legs or a small kid stands up and plays with my seat. This thing happens to me whenever I go to a movie (infinity times). So irritating. I should always turn back, explain him the problem, and tell him to watch his legs. The persons sitting behind me differ but the action is one and the same.
--> Explain the reason behind a bird peeing only on me either on my shoulder or my elbow even though I happen to be with 5 or 6 people. Why doesn’t it pee on the person beside me but only me? I feel like tearing off my shirt and shout loudly when this happens to me. This scene repeated for 4 times and I say its so funny (to others), irritating and embarrassing to wipe it off.
--> Last but not least, why do I step into cow shit now and then? Describing the after effects is not needed, it must have happened to you atleast once and you know how it feels..!
Why GOD why? Why only me?
--> Why is that whenever I crave for some company (which I rarely do) I don’t get it? I end up calling 5 or 6 friends. They are either out of town or already engaged in some other work or in the worst case do not attend the call..!!.
--> I ordered for a cutlet and standing there for the past 15 minutes. A person suddenly comes out of nowhere, happily orders the same thing, and even gets it before I do(without any waiting time..!). it happened so many times that I lost count of those. Why?
--> I don’t really understand why always the person seated behind me in a cinema theatre hits my seat from behind with his legs or a small kid stands up and plays with my seat. This thing happens to me whenever I go to a movie (infinity times). So irritating. I should always turn back, explain him the problem, and tell him to watch his legs. The persons sitting behind me differ but the action is one and the same.
--> Explain the reason behind a bird peeing only on me either on my shoulder or my elbow even though I happen to be with 5 or 6 people. Why doesn’t it pee on the person beside me but only me? I feel like tearing off my shirt and shout loudly when this happens to me. This scene repeated for 4 times and I say its so funny (to others), irritating and embarrassing to wipe it off.
--> Last but not least, why do I step into cow shit now and then? Describing the after effects is not needed, it must have happened to you atleast once and you know how it feels..!
Why GOD why? Why only me?
Ms. AP 09 BN ****
Date: 17th September 2010
Time: 8.45 PM
(Scene: Rush Hour time at Mehdipatnam; I was, as usual, sitting in the last seat of the bus and gazing out of the window with my head hanging out after yet another routine day….)
I was enjoying the fun of sitting in a bus and watching a deadly traffic jam from window seat when suddenly a big machine named Honda Civic being driven by a beautiful lady in a white designer kurtha and faded blue jeans caught my attention….
Thanks to traffic jam, I could closely observe the way she was driving the big car with soft hands and playing with the steering wheel like a small ring while the other big guys were struggling to move their cars smoothly. She was cool, calm, relaxed, stretched out and was controlling her car like a small toy. The A.C in her car was good (I think); she was happily changing the audio tracks in her player when we were all choking in the polluted air. I tried so much to have a glance at her face but I was in a bus, a higher machine than her’s and the result is that her car’s roof did not allow to me to have a look at her. I imagined what would be her profession; maybe a head of HRD in a big MNC or a Delivery manager or something else. Or she would have been one of the daughters of a bigwig in the society (but bigwigs always see that drivers are there, so ruling out this possibility). Leaving her profession aside, I felt that she is making a strong statement by displaying her driving skills in the male dominated driving here in the city, that too in a traffic jam. I loved your attitude (now don’t ask me how could you analyze her attitude in that little time! I rely on my instincts)
Whoever is this Ms. AP 09 BN ****, you have made my routine evening a bit more cheerful and more interesting. Thanks for the pleasant evening..!
Time: 8.45 PM
(Scene: Rush Hour time at Mehdipatnam; I was, as usual, sitting in the last seat of the bus and gazing out of the window with my head hanging out after yet another routine day….)
I was enjoying the fun of sitting in a bus and watching a deadly traffic jam from window seat when suddenly a big machine named Honda Civic being driven by a beautiful lady in a white designer kurtha and faded blue jeans caught my attention….
Thanks to traffic jam, I could closely observe the way she was driving the big car with soft hands and playing with the steering wheel like a small ring while the other big guys were struggling to move their cars smoothly. She was cool, calm, relaxed, stretched out and was controlling her car like a small toy. The A.C in her car was good (I think); she was happily changing the audio tracks in her player when we were all choking in the polluted air. I tried so much to have a glance at her face but I was in a bus, a higher machine than her’s and the result is that her car’s roof did not allow to me to have a look at her. I imagined what would be her profession; maybe a head of HRD in a big MNC or a Delivery manager or something else. Or she would have been one of the daughters of a bigwig in the society (but bigwigs always see that drivers are there, so ruling out this possibility). Leaving her profession aside, I felt that she is making a strong statement by displaying her driving skills in the male dominated driving here in the city, that too in a traffic jam. I loved your attitude (now don’t ask me how could you analyze her attitude in that little time! I rely on my instincts)
Whoever is this Ms. AP 09 BN ****, you have made my routine evening a bit more cheerful and more interesting. Thanks for the pleasant evening..!
For the past 48 hrs..
14th Aug:
0530 hrs: Get up, switch on the system, Read RGV's blog
0830 hrs: Breakfast
0900 hrs: going through memories on my hard disk
1000 hrs: Get ready
1030 hrs: Call from abhilash, misc works to be done
1130 hrs: drop abhilash; proceed to Ohris, Necklace Road(on my bike..! he he.. proud of it..!); avoid answering frantic phone calls from pradeep,ravi,vikram; inhale lots of carbon monoxide, aerosols; negotiating traffic with extra care.
1225 hrs: reached parking area, Ohris; called vikram to know that they are at prasad’s
1235 hrs: park the vehicle @ prasad’s; collect the tickets; have a pathetic lunch
1345 hrs: Watch Inception
1600 hrs: say WOW! Come out of the theater; search for the bike; start for home
1700 hrs: watch TV, blah blah blah with family
2300 hrs: publish the post ‘23rd milestone of an a**hole’s life’ on my blog
2330 hrs: leave for abhilash’s home
2350 hrs: start taking calls, loading the taxi with abhilash’s luggage
15the Aug:
0030 hrs: leave for the airport
0130 hrs: reach airport; unload the luggage;
0200 hrs: go to McDonald’s; cut a burger; have snacks and softdrink
0225 hrs: watch abhilash going in for the checkin; (Happy journey and All the BEST!)
0300 hrs: leave airport; reach abhilash’s home
0400 hrs: reach my home; sleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep!
0430 hrs: call from swappy; gossiping for cooool 1 hr 28 mins
0600 hrs: calm walk
0700 hrs: sleep
0730 hrs: blah blah blah
1100 hrs: head bath
1200 hrs: leave home for lunch
1330 hrs: good lunch at Chutney’s, Himayathnagar
1430 hrs: leave Chutney’s; roam here and there
1630 hrs: reach home; watch leader
1730 hrs: meet ravi
2000 hrs: reach home; check mails;
2110 hrs: typing this post
0530 hrs: Get up, switch on the system, Read RGV's blog
0830 hrs: Breakfast
0900 hrs: going through memories on my hard disk
1000 hrs: Get ready
1030 hrs: Call from abhilash, misc works to be done
1130 hrs: drop abhilash; proceed to Ohris, Necklace Road(on my bike..! he he.. proud of it..!); avoid answering frantic phone calls from pradeep,ravi,vikram; inhale lots of carbon monoxide, aerosols; negotiating traffic with extra care.
1225 hrs: reached parking area, Ohris; called vikram to know that they are at prasad’s
1235 hrs: park the vehicle @ prasad’s; collect the tickets; have a pathetic lunch
1345 hrs: Watch Inception
1600 hrs: say WOW! Come out of the theater; search for the bike; start for home
1700 hrs: watch TV, blah blah blah with family
2300 hrs: publish the post ‘23rd milestone of an a**hole’s life’ on my blog
2330 hrs: leave for abhilash’s home
2350 hrs: start taking calls, loading the taxi with abhilash’s luggage
15the Aug:
0030 hrs: leave for the airport
0130 hrs: reach airport; unload the luggage;
0200 hrs: go to McDonald’s; cut a burger; have snacks and softdrink
0225 hrs: watch abhilash going in for the checkin; (Happy journey and All the BEST!)
0300 hrs: leave airport; reach abhilash’s home
0400 hrs: reach my home; sleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep!
0430 hrs: call from swappy; gossiping for cooool 1 hr 28 mins
0600 hrs: calm walk
0700 hrs: sleep
0730 hrs: blah blah blah
1100 hrs: head bath
1200 hrs: leave home for lunch
1330 hrs: good lunch at Chutney’s, Himayathnagar
1430 hrs: leave Chutney’s; roam here and there
1630 hrs: reach home; watch leader
1730 hrs: meet ravi
2000 hrs: reach home; check mails;
2110 hrs: typing this post
23rd milestone of an A**hole’s life…
For the fact: I completed 22 successful years of my life. I don’t ‘regret’ anything I have done in my life till now. I agree that I am the most stupidest person I’ve ever seen and I am proud it.
Since 4 or 5 years I made it a habit to recollect the things that happened to me from one milestone to the other. I can see that for every year there have been a few changes in me. And this one was the most learning phase or rather I can say the most difficult part for me to handle from which I came out in flying colors. The transition from 2009 to 2010 is the most satisfying one for me personally. I have had a couple of important failures and learnt a lot from them. I stress that a person should fail at times to realize the importance of succeeding and to get a broader view of his own life. When you fail, try to come out of your life at that particular point and make a check on the whole to know what really went wrong as an outsider. Sometimes truth may taste bitter but its better to accept the way it is and search for a way out.
I am pretty happy with the way my life is taking its shape. I'm loving my life for what it is.
On this ‘wonderful’ occasion I would like to thank GOD, my family, my best buddies and a special mention about Ramu(Ram Gopal Varma) for all his gyan without which I would have buried myself with meaningless thoughts in my mind.
P.S: Whenever I expect something to happen, it never really happens. I repeat ‘it never really happens’. But if something happens it would be the best thing (either ways) ever happened to me… Looking forward for the best part of my life (this is what I call 'the heights of optimism..!')
Why i couldn't get any girl friends?
The often repeated topic. It seems to be a mystery until I really start thinking. One of my personal favorites. Why some men can never fall in love or never get girl friends. Many of us just keep complaining, without thinking on what the inherent problem is. Thankfully, I did it as a case study and found out some important issues which might concur with a majority of people who are rocking the same boat as me.
• In case of workplace, there are no girls in my project and I have likeminded people like me and wherein my entertainment oscillates between bars and cinema theatres.
• I obviously can’t groove and dance and dance around in a group in a disc by just shaking my head or grooving my hip. I can’t wait for a bhangra number to crop up. Unfortunately, I’m too adept at dancing dappankuthu dance, not the Americanized western hip hop dance.
• I can’t eat Spanish, Chinese foods and my favorite restaurant invariably happens to be saravana bhavan, shanty-sagar types. We frankly are clueless as to what are Bela ciae, Wang’s kitchen and things like that, unless we happen to go on a treat organized by the other guys.
• I don’t see a reason why I have to go to Barista when the local corner ‘nair kadi chaaya’ tastes like nectar and satisfies more than a Barista’s.
• I obviously don’t know how to make use of yahoo messenger, I use it to scold my online friends with the best choice of invectives, spread rumors about other guys and ask them to book the latest movie tickets. I unfortunately don’t know how to flirt using yahoo messenger and are frequently at loss of topics when I want to chat with some girl, whereas I am deluged with strange topics to discuss with my friend with whom I had lost touch for the past decade or so.
• While chatting in messenger, I seriously can’t start a topic with a member of opposite sex. I’ve seen guys chatting with girls purely with emoticons for more than an hour. I can never do that. I will have to crack real dumb jokes to start the conversation or fabely extol them.
• And I bet, I can’t do the following:
Boy: what did you have for breakfast?
Girl: I had idly.
Boy: Is it?? Same pinch, no back pinch, I too had idly (he slyly pinches her) and laughs.
Girl: Ouchy (artificially). It hurts.
Boy: Ohhh.. I’m sorry and (tries to apoligise)... then says “I had samber for idly”
Girl: (excitedly)... Samber…! I had chutney and giggles.
I swear, I can’t tolerate any longer than this... and this is not a figment of imagination, by any means. I’ve seen this though I agree there may be exceptions.
• All through my college life, I belong to this boy’s gang and even in my group, nobody has a girl friend. So there is absolutely an absence of inspirational factor.
With all these attributes, it is difficult for guys like me to fall in love/to find a girl. But its not a sin after all. I guess we are not made for it. We’re one among the few in the vanishing tribe. Le us accept that and are proud of that.
We’ve the uniqueness that we remain single till we get married and having that triat is really a virtue and who knows, we might be the elite clique in the future.
So all those of people like me who feel sad that they don’t have girl friends, just chill! we are not made for it and I would not have added any value additions and we are better off staying single till 28 or 30 or more than that…..!!
Read this somewhere.. liked it and posted it here.
• In case of workplace, there are no girls in my project and I have likeminded people like me and wherein my entertainment oscillates between bars and cinema theatres.
• I obviously can’t groove and dance and dance around in a group in a disc by just shaking my head or grooving my hip. I can’t wait for a bhangra number to crop up. Unfortunately, I’m too adept at dancing dappankuthu dance, not the Americanized western hip hop dance.
• I can’t eat Spanish, Chinese foods and my favorite restaurant invariably happens to be saravana bhavan, shanty-sagar types. We frankly are clueless as to what are Bela ciae, Wang’s kitchen and things like that, unless we happen to go on a treat organized by the other guys.
• I don’t see a reason why I have to go to Barista when the local corner ‘nair kadi chaaya’ tastes like nectar and satisfies more than a Barista’s.
• I obviously don’t know how to make use of yahoo messenger, I use it to scold my online friends with the best choice of invectives, spread rumors about other guys and ask them to book the latest movie tickets. I unfortunately don’t know how to flirt using yahoo messenger and are frequently at loss of topics when I want to chat with some girl, whereas I am deluged with strange topics to discuss with my friend with whom I had lost touch for the past decade or so.
• While chatting in messenger, I seriously can’t start a topic with a member of opposite sex. I’ve seen guys chatting with girls purely with emoticons for more than an hour. I can never do that. I will have to crack real dumb jokes to start the conversation or fabely extol them.
• And I bet, I can’t do the following:
Boy: what did you have for breakfast?
Girl: I had idly.
Boy: Is it?? Same pinch, no back pinch, I too had idly (he slyly pinches her) and laughs.
Girl: Ouchy (artificially). It hurts.
Boy: Ohhh.. I’m sorry and (tries to apoligise)... then says “I had samber for idly”
Girl: (excitedly)... Samber…! I had chutney and giggles.
I swear, I can’t tolerate any longer than this... and this is not a figment of imagination, by any means. I’ve seen this though I agree there may be exceptions.
• All through my college life, I belong to this boy’s gang and even in my group, nobody has a girl friend. So there is absolutely an absence of inspirational factor.
With all these attributes, it is difficult for guys like me to fall in love/to find a girl. But its not a sin after all. I guess we are not made for it. We’re one among the few in the vanishing tribe. Le us accept that and are proud of that.
We’ve the uniqueness that we remain single till we get married and having that triat is really a virtue and who knows, we might be the elite clique in the future.
So all those of people like me who feel sad that they don’t have girl friends, just chill! we are not made for it and I would not have added any value additions and we are better off staying single till 28 or 30 or more than that…..!!
Read this somewhere.. liked it and posted it here.
Atlasssssst !!
well, i leave this post like this............................ ___ __________ ______ ______ _____ _____ __ _____ _________ ____________ _________ ________ ____________ _____
I have nothing to say..
I wish myself a good luck..
MAY GOD BLESS ME !!
I have nothing to say..
I wish myself a good luck..
MAY GOD BLESS ME !!
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10th Jan 2010..... :(
Whats the big thing about this day? My best buddy Praneeth Chakradhar Palety is flying away to pursue Master of Sciences in Texas A & M University, Commerce, United States of America in wee hours of 11th Jan 2010. To be precise, he would take off at 0210 hrs from RGIA, Hyderabad, India to Dallas, Texas, USA. The send off party hosted by praneeth and mahateja at Ohris, Neclace Road was good;the food wasnt worth but quality time spent with friends was worth. Lot of fun watching my college buddies giving bday bumps...! He was a bit sad today. May be the thought of leaving all the loved ones was passing through his mind. Its ok man.. you would be okay.
I wish u Good Luck praneeth. Hope everything goes in a right way in your life. May GOD bless you..!
captured at Dominos, Shirdi on 29th Dec, 2009 @ 1506 hrs
I wish u Good Luck praneeth. Hope everything goes in a right way in your life. May GOD bless you..!
captured at Dominos, Shirdi on 29th Dec, 2009 @ 1506 hrs
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